Walking with hope and dharma : are dogs enlightened? Are Humans? - The costs and benefits of obliviousness : growing up in the 1950s - Nine bad things that almost happened, and many more that did : getting to the other side of trauma - What is the opposite of trauma? : the positive power of transformational grace - Can there ever be enough me? : narcissism and the positive death of self - What does it mean to live an "extraordinary life"?