Soft and quiet, hard and loud : two types of complex transference states -- Finding the meaning : moment-to-moment transference work with the loud/sharp states of mind -- Pathological aspects of giving and receiving : conflicts within the paranoid/depressive spectrum -- Varieties of depressive anxiety : fragile patients in the fray -- Trouble in paradise : the trauma of separation and individuation within the depressive realm -- Doing the best we can : establishing analytic contact with non-attachment patients -- The object relational struggles of libidinal and destructive narcissists.