expert advice from other stepmoms on how to juggle your job, your marriage, and your new stepkids /
Jacquelyn B. Fletcher ; foreword by Francesca Adler-Baeder.
1st ed.
New York :
Harper,
2007.
xviii, 332 pages ;
21 cm
Includes bibliographical references.
Thirty-something single successful girl seeks mature male for dating, maybe more -- Cinderella's man didn't have any kids; why does mine? : the fall of the fantasy -- What is a stepmother? : uncovering your expectations -- Face the music : getting to know the kids -- From sassy single to wife? : learning how to be married -- This land is my land : day-to-day life in a stepfamily -- Show me the money : financial realities -- Rocky road : the legal battleground -- You're the boss (of yourself) : empowered, educated women make good stepmoms -- Pit of despair : fight the instant-family funk -- All work and no play makes stepmom wicked : the "I" within "we" -- Community relations : stepmotherhood changes your relationships -- The other woman : coming to terms with the ex -- Little monsters : what to do when you don't like his kids -- He says : fathers speak out about their needs -- Baby on board? : what happens when you add a new kid to the mix -- Let the sun shine : what you expect is what you get -- The payoff : keep your eye on the big picture -- Panel of experts.
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"You have an exciting, fulfilling job. You've fallen in love with the man of your dreams-- and met his three kids! Now what? Jacquelyn B. Fletcher shows how any professional woman turned wife and instant stepmother can build on the skills she employs at work-- organization, team-building, goal-setting, and planning-- to succeed at home in her new role as stepmom. Drawing on the latest research, her own experiences, and those of other real-life stepmothers, Fletcher offers advice, hope, encouragement, and much-needed answers to common conundrums, including: Why don't I have control over my own schedule? ; What kind of relationship do I want with my stepkids? ; What if I want to have a baby of my own? ; How do we create a budget that feels fair if I make more money than my husband does? [This book] is essential reading for the professional woman who has it all-- and then suddenly has more than she expecte"--Amazon.com.