Includes bibliographical references (pages 185-187).
Part one: In the beginning -- Apprenticeship -- First patient -- Joel -- Part two: Everyday examples -- "Is this the one?" -- The paranoid moment -- Drowning out the other -- "I did it my way" -- Respect -- The reviewer -- Postmodern intimacy: I can't commit -- Intimate giving -- Part three: Obstacles -- Working it through -- Self help -- Counter example -- The dynamics -- Xxxxx (need new chapter title) -- The problem of pacing -- Letting go -- The dynamics -- Part four: Therapy and intimacy -- When a therapist loves a patient -- When a therapist hates a patient -- The intimate bond.