a guide for parents whose child is more intense, sensitive, perceptive, persistent, energetic /
Mary Sheedy Kurcinka.
Rev. ed.
New York :
Harper,
2006.
x, 480 pages ;
21 cm
Includes bibliographical references and index.
Understanding spirit -- Who is the spirited child? -- A different point of view : building on the strengths -- What makes kids spirited? : why they do what they do -- Matches and mismatches : parents and kids fitting together -- Working with spirit -- Extrovert or introvert : finding the energy to cope -- Intensity : diffusing your child's strong reactions -- Intensity : keeping your cool -- Persistence : choosing your battles -- Sensitivity : understanding how they feel -- Distractible or perceptive : helping them hear our directions -- Adaptability : making transitions easier -- Regularity, energy, first reaction, and mood : understanding the "bonus" traits -- Tantrums : spotting the triggers -- Living with spirit -- Planning for success : predicting and preventing the trouble spots -- Bedtime and night walking -- Mealtime -- Getting dressed -- Socializing with spirit -- Getting along with other kids -- Holiday and vacation hot spots -- Success in school -- Enjoying the spirit -- Epilogue : the rose in my garden.
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Presents guidance and exercises for parents of "spirited" children on such topics as dealing with tantrums and power struggles, helping a child focus and adapt to change, and recognizing cues when trouble is brewing.